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Mary Todd Lincoln
Date of Birth: Dec 13, 1818
Date of Death: July 16, 1882
Age at death: 63
Married: Nov 4, 1842
Abraham Lincoln
Children: 4

  • Mary Todd dated both Lincoln and his political rival Stephen Douglas
  • She accepted a proposal from Abe, who broke the engagement just before the wedding
  • He re-proposed and they were married in 1842
  • To put it mildly, Mary Todd was an emotional wreck
  • Severe migraines kept her bedridden for weeks at a time, and she often threw tirades in public while accusing her husband of infidelity
  • She was physically abusive as witnessed by attorney Lincoln often appearing in court with bruises, blackened eyes, and on one occasion, a broken nose
  • She expressed open destain toward members of the press who cited her extravagant spending during the height of the Civil War as both outrageous and disrespectful
  • She purchased new china for $12,000, and redecorated the Mansion while overshooting her allocated budget by $20,000
  • It was not unusual for merchants to petition Congress, or demand payment from the president, for Mrs. Lincoln's credits
  • After the death of their son Willie in 1862, Mary Todd staged six White House seances in an attempt to communicate with him
  • The president attended only one of the meetings stating he just wanted to find out who was wasting his wife's money
  • Following her role as First Lady she was declared insane and institutionalized for a year